This post was first published on The ASCO Post, September 10, 2022. It has been edited for content. The ASCO Post, in partnership with the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO), communicates news of evidence-based multidisciplinary cancer care to a broad audience of oncology professionals and ASCO members. 

Devorah Aschendorf is a cancer survivor living in Brooklyn, New York.

I was just 31 and about to give birth to my fourth child, Yitzchok, when I received a diagnosis of primary mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma. The news was terrifying and crippling. For months, I had been experiencing shortness of breath, coughing, and a pain in my left shoulder, all of which I thought were explained by allergies, raising 3 young children, preparing for the birth of my next child, and working full-time as a visiting nurse in Brooklyn, New York. The symptoms were easy to brush off. My obstetrician waved them away, too. “You’re pregnant,” she said, emphatically.

However, a few days later, after taking care of a patient, I felt ill. When I checked my blood pressure and saw that it was elevated, I called my doctor to tell her I was concerned. When she heard how out of breath I was, she sent me for laboratory tests. A cardiologist I saw also recommended a chest x-ray, which my obstetrician was reluctant to do at first because of my pregnancy. Finally, the cardiologist insisted on the test, which showed a large mass on the left side of my chest. A biopsy confirmed the mass was primary mediastinal large B-cell lymphoma.

Coping with cancer while caring for a newborn

Within a week of the diagnosis, I had a cesarean section to deliver Yitzchok, and I immediately started 6 rounds of a chemotherapy regimen. The treatment was grueling and kept me in the hospital for 4 days of continuous chemotherapy. We had to move our family into my mother’s house so she could help take care of my 3 older children, and we hired a nurse to care for Yitzchok.

Even when I was recuperating at home in between rounds of chemotherapy, I was so exhausted and weak from the therapy, I could only hold Yitzchok for a few minutes at a time while cradling him in bed. I was too afraid and dizzy to hold him while walking around the house. Not being able to care for my newborn son was the worst part of my cancer ordeal. I remember telling my husband, Moshe, that I missed out on the first year of Yitzchok’s life—a year that I will never get back.

Losing my hair during treatment was another huge emotional blow. Even though as an Orthodox Jewish woman I cover my hair with a wig when I am outside of my home, seeing clumps of hair fall out while showering was devastating, and I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror.

How CAR T-cell therapy saved my life

Despite the aggressive treatment, which initially put the lymphoma into remission, the cancer recurred several months later. My oncologist then recommended 2 rounds of high-dose chemotherapy to prepare me for an autologous stem cell transplant. But that treatment, too, was unsuccessful. In hindsight, it was a blessing that the treatment failed to get me to a remission for the transplant.

Next, my oncologist said my only option was treatment with a recently approved chimeric antigen receptor (CAR) T-cell therapy. Although I didn’t have some of the serious central nervous system side effects of CAR T-cell therapy, such as mental confusion, I did experience fever, tachycardia (fast heart rate), and lethargy. After a 2-week hospital stay, I was well enough to go home and take care of my family. Three months later, a positron-emission tomography (PET) scan showed no evidence of disease, and today I remain cancer-free.

A different perspective on life

As a young mother of 4 children, having an aggressive lymphoma that threatened my life has altered how I now view the world. I switched my job as a visiting nurse to doing office case management to reduce my stress level. I’m satisfied with having more time to be with my kids and taking care of my family. I want to be here to watch my children grow and become responsible adults. I’m no longer concerned about having a high-intensity professional life. I’m just glad to be alive and be with my family.

Throughout my cancer journey, what helped me maintain a positive attitude, even during the difficult days following my cancer relapse, was the optimism of my oncology team. My oncologist assured me all along the way that I would have a good outcome, and his reassurance kept me moving forward without falling into despair. His encouragement went a long way to helping me get to the other side of survivorship.

I’m grateful to my oncology team and to my family—especially my husband—for helping me get back to the life I love. I don’t take their effort and support for granted. Every day is precious to me, and I live each one to the fullest. 

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