{"id":28872,"date":"2023-04-24T08:00:29","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T08:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/?p=25577"},"modified":"2024-11-03T15:12:47","modified_gmt":"2024-11-03T15:12:47","slug":"our-10-top-tips-to-help-you-talk-about-cancer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ogkologos.com\/en\/our-10-top-tips-to-help-you-talk-about-cancer\/","title":{"rendered":"Our 10 top tips to help you talk about cancer"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"image hero-image\"> <img width=\"620\" height=\"348\" src=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero.jpg\" class=\"attachment-featuredImage size-featuredImage\" alt decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero.jpg 620w, https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero-220x123.jpg 220w, https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" data-attachment-id=\"25587\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2023\/04\/24\/10-tips-to-help-you-talk-about-cancer\/talk-cancer-hero\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"620,348\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"talk-cancer-hero\" data-image-description data-image-caption data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero-300x168.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/talk-cancer-hero.jpg\"><\/div>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">To help us beat cancer, we need to improve cancer awareness, share the importance of spotting cancer early and tackle <a href=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/series\/health-inequalities\/\">health inequalities<\/a>. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Talking about cancer can help bring us one step closer to our goal. It can save lives and help to break down the barriers people may face to seeking help. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">We know that talking about cancer isn\u2019t easy, but we want to help you.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">To ensure you can make every conversation count, the nurse trainers from our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/health-professional\/awareness-and-prevention\/cancer-awareness-training-programme\/how-to-participate\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Talk Cancer training programme<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\"> have shared their top tips to help you talk about cancer and health with your community, friends, family and colleagues.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">1. Ask open questions<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134245418&quot;:false,&quot;134245529&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">It might sound counterintuitive, but you can talk about cancer without even using the word cancer. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">For example, if someone is worried about a symptom they\u2019re experiencing, you could ask questions like \u201chow long have you had that symptom?\u201d or \u201cwhat has your doctor said?\u201d.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">By asking open questions that start with \u2018what\u2019, \u2018when\u2019, \u2018where\u2019 and \u2018how\u2019, it encourages people to think and reflect on what\u2019s happening and helps them to decide on the next steps for themselves. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">2. Use simple, easy to understand language <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Trying to explain complex health messages and facts may be confusing to some people. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Using plain language where possible helps to remove barriers when communicating and gives people a better chance of understanding what you\u2019re saying. Try to use familiar words and phrases and speak in short sentences if you can. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">3. Encourage positive action <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Encouraging positive action is a great way to inspire people to make changes to help reduce their risk of cancer. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Making a positive change like quitting smoking or cutting back on red and processed meat may seem daunting, but encouraging people to take small simple steps may help to make it more achievable.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">4. Actively listen<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Talking about cancer can be a vulnerable experience for someone, so make sure you keep the focus on them and spend time listening to what they have to say. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Be sure to make eye contact, repeat points back and be supportive. This not only shows that you\u2019ve been listening but will help encourage action on any positive behaviours that were suggested, like making an appointment with a doctor.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">5. Normalise talking about cancer<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134245418&quot;:false,&quot;134245529&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">If we can normalise talking about cancer like we do other diseases it can help reduce any stigma around being open about it and break down barriers people may have in seeking help. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">By making it part of everyday conversation, you can help people understand more about cancer and feel more comfortable to ask questions. This can help people learn how to reduce their risk of cancer and give them the confidence to seek help if they notice anything that isn\u2019t normal for them.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">6. Signpost to reliable information<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">When talking about cancer, you don\u2019t need to have all the answers. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Instead, you can signpost people to places that can provide trustworthy information and resources. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">You can signpost to reliable websites or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/publications.cancerresearchuk.org\/\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">get our leaflets for free<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\"> to share with others. You can also signpost people to local services for help. To find these services head to the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/nhs-services\/services-near-you\/\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">NHS website<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\">, put in a postcode and services local to that area will appear. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">7. Know how to respond if someone wants to discuss a symptom <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">In your conversations about cancer, you may find that people will want to discuss a symptom with you. However, symptoms could mean so many different things and not just cancer. If this happens, encourage them to speak to a doctor if what they\u2019re experiencing isn\u2019t normal for them. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">8. Be aware of your boundaries<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134245418&quot;:false,&quot;134245529&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Having a conversation about cancer doesn\u2019t have to mean doing something you don\u2019t feel comfortable with. Starting the conversation is the important thing. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Remember to stay within your boundaries, whether they be professional or personal. Just by asking a few open questions or signposting to information can help you make every conversation count.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">9. Cancer Chat and nurse helpline<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134245418&quot;:false,&quot;134245529&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/information-and-support\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Cancer Chat forum and nurse helpline<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\"> are great resources for information and support. The Cancer Chat forum is an online community for anyone affected by cancer, where you can connect with others. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">You can also ask our nurses questions about symptoms, diagnosis and treatment through our helpline. Call freephone 08088004040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"none\">10. Mental health and cancer <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134245418&quot;:false,&quot;134245529&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559738&quot;:40,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Whether you are someone with cancer, a carer for someone with cancer, or even know someone with cancer, it is common to struggle with your mental health when dealing with a cancer diagnosis. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">Coming to terms with a very stressful life experience is difficult; it is not always a straightforward path. There is no right or wrong way to feel or be. We\u2019ve got more information about <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/about-cancer\/coping\/mental-health-cancer\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">mental health and cancer<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\">, but if you are struggling with your mental health or know someone who is, then please do talk to your doctor or a mental health professional to get support.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Talking Cancer<\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Those are our 10 top tips on how to talk about cancer.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Remember, no one is expecting you to be an expert, and you shouldn\u2019t push yourself to have conversations you aren\u2019t comfortable with. But something as simple as listening to someone\u2019s concerns and encouraging them to seek help can be a huge step in breaking down the stigma around cancer.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"none\">If you would like more information to help you talk about cancer, check out our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/health-professional\/awareness-and-prevention\/cancer-awareness-training-programme\/how-to-participate\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Talk Cancer training programme<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\">. The training aims to help you feel confident talking to people about ways to reduce the risk of cancer, spotting cancer early and the national cancer screening programmes.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/health-professional\/awareness-and-prevention\/cancer-awareness-training-programme\/how-to-participate\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Contact the Talk Cancer team<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\"> to find out how you have the power to have life-saving conversations.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\"> <\/span><em>Sophie Lindsay-Ogg is a senior health community engagement officer at Cancer Research UK<\/em><\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"panel-title\">More on this topic<\/h3>\n<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2023\/04\/24\/10-tips-to-help-you-talk-about-cancer\/\">Source<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To help us beat cancer, we need to improve cancer awareness, share the importance of spotting cancer early and tackle health inequalities. Talking about cancer can help bring us one step closer to our goal. It can save lives and help to break down the barriers people may face to seeking help. 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