{"id":27563,"date":"2021-10-21T08:36:27","date_gmt":"2021-10-21T08:36:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/?p=23696"},"modified":"2024-11-03T15:14:11","modified_gmt":"2024-11-03T15:14:11","slug":"breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ogkologos.com\/en\/breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest\/","title":{"rendered":"Breast cancer surgery: \u2018I\u2019m proud of the tattoos inked across my chest\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"image hero-image\" readability=\"7\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"348\" src=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image.jpg\" class=\"attachment-featuredImage size-featuredImage\" alt=\"A photo of Wendy, sitting on the stairs and smiling to the camera.\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image.jpg 620w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image-220x123.jpg 220w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" data-attachment-id=\"23697\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2021\/10\/21\/breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest\/wendy_hero_image\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"620,348\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Wendy_hero_image\" data-image-description data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image-300x168.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_hero_image.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>Wendy had a double mastectomy in 2017 and remained flat.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cWhen the consultant told me, I remember crying and saying that I have 2 young children, I am a single parent. Who\u2019s going to take care of them? My children need me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shamilla describes being in a state of shock when she was diagnosed in 2015. But despite the gravity of the news, there\u2019s often not much time to process before the decisions about possible treatments begin. And for those who have surgery, the decision-making doesn\u2019t end there.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Shelley Potter, an Associate Professor of breast cancer surgery at the University of Bristol, has spent years talking people through their reconstructive options after surgery.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUltimately, I think it\u2019s a very, very personal decision. And it\u2019s what what\u2019s right for the person at the time,\u201d says Potter. \u201cBut there is a lot to consider.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We spoke to 3 women who have undergone different types of surgery to either treat breast cancer or reduce the chance of a diagnosis. Each of them has a unique story to tell.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"TextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">Shamilla<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">\u2018s story<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">\u2013<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">mastectomy with<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">f<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW258479393 BCX4\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"heading 2\">lap reconstruction<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Shamilla was diagnosed with grade 2 breast cancer in her right breast in October 2015.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_23706\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\" readability=\"32\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"23706\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2021\/10\/21\/breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest\/shamilla_cropped_2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"200,200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Shamilla_cropped_2\" data-image-description data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23706\" src=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2.jpg\" alt=\"A photograph of Shamilla, sitting on a bench and smiling at the camera.\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2.jpg 200w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Shamilla_cropped_2-96x96.jpg 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Shamilla was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Within a week of her diagnosis, it was confirmed that she would need to have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/about-cancer\/breast-cancer\/treatment\/surgery\/remove-whole-breast\">mastectomy<\/a>, a surgery to remove all of the breast, followed by chemotherapy.<\/p>\n<p>Shamilla describes how she found it hard to process some of the initial conversations with the cancer specialist because she was still in a state of shock. But she found the leaflets they provided helpful, particularly when it came to deciding what procedure she would have.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was provided with 2 options,\u201d she explains. \u201cWith the type of cancer I had, I was advised on the best options for me, and a major factor was recovery time and knowing which one would be more effective at getting rid of the cancer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After discussions with her oncologist, surgeons and Macmillan breast care nurses, Shamilla decided to have a latissimus dorsi (LD) <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/about-cancer\/breast-cancer\/treatment\/surgery\/breast-reconstruction\/using-body-tissue\">flap reconstruction<\/a>, an operation that involves reconstructing the breast using the patient\u2019s own body tissue.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"TextRun SCXW235421312 BCX4\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW235421312 BCX4\" data-ccp-charstyle=\"Heading 2 Char\">Wendy<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW235421312 BCX4\" data-ccp-charstyle=\"Heading 2 Char\">\u2019s story<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW235421312 BCX4\" data-ccp-charstyle=\"Heading 2 Char\">\u2013 double mastectomy, remaining flat<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Wendy was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2009, when her children were 8 and 10 years old.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Initially, Wendy underwent a<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/about-cancer\/breast-cancer\/treatment\/surgery\/remove-just-area-cancer\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">lumpectomy<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">, a treatment to remove<\/span> <span data-contrast=\"none\">the cancerous lump and some healthy tissue around the cancer<\/span> <span data-contrast=\"auto\">followed by radiotherapy, and 5 years on<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cancerresearchuk.org\/about-cancer\/cancer-in-general\/treatment\/cancer-drugs\/drugs\/tamoxifen\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Tamoxifen<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u201cThe annual scans came back as normal each year and all seemed good,\u201d she says.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">But during a regular examination, she became aware of some tenderness around her scar. After various consultations and tests, new cancerous cells were found in the same breast as previously.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_23699\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\" readability=\"32\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"23699\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2021\/10\/21\/breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest\/wendy_cropped\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"200,200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Wendy_cropped\" data-image-description data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23699\" src=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped.jpg\" alt=\"A photograph of Wendy, shortly after her operation. \" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped.jpg 200w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Wendy_cropped-96x96.jpg 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wendy shortly after her operation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u201c<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">I was told that a single mastectomy was required,\u201d Wendy says. \u201cBut after much discussion and consideration with my husband and the surgeon, I asked to have a double mastectomy as by this point, I felt as though my breasts were \u201cticking timebombs\u201d and wanted to be rid of both of them, even though the cancer was only in one of them.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">A bilateral mastectomy, also known as a double mastectomy, is an operation to remove all of both breasts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Wendy had surgery in January 2017. She describes how most people assumed she would have a reconstruction. \u201cBut when I looked into it in more detail and considered all of the new surgery, tissue removal and extra operations required post mastectomy, I decided it was not for me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Instead of wearing a prosthesis or have a breast reconstruction after surgery, Wendy chose to go flat. \u201c<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">I have had the most amazing tattoos inked across my chest, to cover the scars, which I am immensely proud of.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Sasha\u2019s story \u2013 double mastectomy with reconstructive surgery<\/h2>\n<p>A double mastectomy is also offered to women who carry a genetic fault (mutation) known as a BRCA mutation, which increases a woman\u2019s chance of developing breast and ovarian cancer. This is the case for Sasha, who was first told she carried a faulty version of the BRCA2 gene at the age of 19.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cInitially I was petrified as I wasn\u2019t aware what that entailed. But once I spoke with my mum, it made everything feel better and I\u2019ve managed to get my head around it.\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_23701\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\" readability=\"33\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"23701\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2021\/10\/21\/breast-cancer-surgery-im-proud-of-the-tattoos-inked-across-my-chest\/sasha_ad_annie_cropped\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"200,200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped\" data-image-description data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23701\" src=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped.jpg\" alt=\"A photograph of Sasha and her mum Annie, smiling to the camera.\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped.jpg 200w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/34p2k13bwwzx12bgy13rwq8p-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Sasha_ad_Annie_cropped-96x96.jpg 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sasha with her mum, Annie.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>For Sasha, surgery was discussed as an option soon after the gene fault was found, but because of her age, she was advised to take some time to consider the options.<\/p>\n<p>It was 3 years on when she began to have conversations about the different surgeries available to her. \u201cI had a lot of support from all my family and my partner in regard to making the final decision to go ahead with the surgery,\u201d she says. \u201cMy mum was a huge influence for why I went ahead with this surgery as she went through it a few years prior, and sadly lost her battle with cancer.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sasha\u2019s mum Annie was a community care worker who sadly died in 2018 after being diagnosed with breast cancer and finding out she had a faulty BRCA2 gene.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFrom the moment mum told me this was something I could do, I was on board,\u201d says Sasha. \u201cMum wanted me to have it, but she didn\u2019t want to push me. The genetics team at the Leicester Royal Infirmary were brilliant. They often advise young people to think about it and come back but I was quite headstrong, so they went with it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMum was really young to get cancer and I didn\u2019t want to be in the same situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sasha had a double mastectomy to remove both breasts in August 2019 and her reconstruction surgery took place just before lockdown in March 2020.<\/p>\n<h2>How do you make a decision?<\/h2>\n<p>There are different types of breast surgery, which depend on the person and the cancer. Dr Shelley Potter, explains, \u201cit\u2019s essentially dependent on how much disease someone has in their breast.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen you\u2019re offering women breast-conserving surgery (where you don\u2019t remove the whole breast), what you need to think about is how much tissue you may need to remove in relation to the size of the breast. For the majority of women who have breast conservation, they need to have radiotherapy as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"info-box-full-width-no-bg\" readability=\"16.624390243902\">\n<h3>Did you know?<\/h3>\n<p>Cancer Research UK were involved in some of the early work around developing breast-conserving surgery. We supported the work of Geoffrey Keynes, who pioneered the process of the lumpectomy at Barts Hospital in London in the 1930s, and later funded pivotal trials at London\u2019s Guys Hospital that proved that this technique, combined with radiotherapy, was as effective as radical mastectomy in treating breast cancer.<\/p>\n<p>Building on Keynes\u2019 work, we helped fund a <a href=\"https:\/\/news.cancerresearchuk.org\/2017\/10\/02\/our-milestones-a-radical-change-that-improved-breast-cancer-surgery\/\">breast cancer clinical trial in the 60s and 70s<\/a> that laid the foundations for improving surgery for women with early stage breast cancer.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>In cases where someone has a larger area of disease and it\u2019s not possible to preserve the breast, then they need to have a mastectomy. \u201cAnd then the options are a simple mastectomy and going flat, which for some women is totally the right thing to do. It\u2019s the quickest operation with the quickest recovery. Or reconstruction, which can either be implants or tissue reconstruction.<\/p>\n<p>But as well as the logistical factors that may affect what surgery is possible, such as whether you smoke and your BMI, there are lots of other things to think about, explains Shelley. \u201cI think it can depend on how someone feels about their breasts. For some women breasts are very important to their femininity and identity. For other women, it\u2019s less of a consideration.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also important to consider whether someone will need any additional cancer treatments following surgery. Sometimes people prefer to have all their treatments upfront, whereas others would rather have the simplest operation first, finish their treatments and then re-visit further surgery when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut equally,\u201d Shelley continues, \u201cit\u2019s important to think about things like hobbies, what people want to achieve out of their reconstruction, and how much time they\u2019ve got to invest in their recovery. Unfortunately, a lot of women get breast cancer at very busy times in their lives when they\u2019ve often got small children. It\u2019s a really complicated decision.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>The road to recovery<\/h2>\n<p>Although most people recover from breast surgery without major side-effects, the healing process can take time, and there may be problems along the way.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor breast-conserving surgery that just removes the cancer, it\u2019s normally a day case surgery, and people should be feeling themselves within a few weeks,\u201d says Shelley. \u201cThe same goes for a mastectomy, often they\u2019re up walking the following day and recovering in a couple of weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shelley explains how for reconstruction, if an implant is placed under the muscle, recovery can be slightly longer and for reconstruction using the patient\u2019s own tissue, \u201cit\u2019s a much slower recovery as it\u2019s a much bigger operation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Wendy, despite opting for a mastectomy without reconstruction, recovery was difficult. The breast that had originally been operated on and undergone radiotherapy did not heal and she experienced buildups of fluid (seromas) that required draining. After multiple visits to the hospital, it was decided that she would require follow-up surgery to prevent any further damage.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis was heartbreaking after all of the time and effort I had spent caring for my mastectomy scars, cleaning and bandaging them each day, rubbing them with oil, only to have the chest sliced open and to start all over again.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Shamilla recalls how she felt immediately after the surgery. \u201cI was determined to get up and walk to the bathroom even though I had a catheter attached. The nurse said that I may not be able to walk as I had low blood pressure and was very weak. But I was so adamant that I needed to do this myself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn the afternoon I walked to the bathroom and back with the nurse. I was very lightheaded, but I felt so good that I\u2019d taken the next step toward getting better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As well as the physical healing, there may be a period of emotional recovery, adjusting to how your body feels and looks.<\/p>\n<h2>Processing changes to your body<\/h2>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a big change, and the recovery can be emotionally challenging,\u201d says Shelley, \u201cso we do take that really seriously. And if there are signs people are struggling, we have a very good psychology service that we refer people to, and they can talk things through, we want to help people with their expectations.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For Shamilla, it was important for her to stay active and keep a positive mindset. But it could be difficult at times.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt first, I was even terrified to have a look at my operation in the mirror as I did not know what to expect,\u201d she says. \u201cHowever, when I did find the courage to have a look, I felt proud of myself for getting through this. I was happy with the results from the surgery and the scars I did have were like a trophy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Feeling proud is a feeling that unites all 3 women.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I am on holiday on the beach or by the pool I wear a tiny vest or top when I am strolling around, as I would have done when I had boobs. I then remove the top when I am lying sunbathing, just as I would have done when I had boobs,\u201d says Wendy.<\/p>\n<p>Once her scars had healed, she initially considered wearing a padded bra under her clothes, but then decided against it. \u201cNo one has ever made a negative comment or given me a disparaging look. In fact, the very opposite. Many times, I have had people compliment me on my tattoos and complete strangers telling me they admire my bravery.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wendy\u2019s daughter was finishing her art degree around the time she had her mastectomy. \u201cI was lamenting the fact that I had all of these beautiful tops and lingerie that I couldn\u2019t wear anymore so for her dissertation she came up with the outstanding idea of creating a way to modify your favourite clothing so you can still wear it post-mastectomy,\u201d she says. \u201cI was her model for the project and we found that all you need is a good seamstress and a bit of imagination, and you can still wear your favourite items with pride.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sasha describes how it took time to get her head around what her body had been through. \u201cWhen I started to feel more myself again it was still such a strange feeling, as some of my clothes didn\u2019t fit as they did before,\u201d she says. \u201cBut as time went on, I appreciated what I went through and started to feel more confident in myself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI do still have days where I feel self-conscious with my appearance, but I just remember so does everyone else.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Looking back<\/h2>\n<p>For each of these women, their experience with breast cancer and breast surgery has been unique, and looking back at that decision over time can stir up different emotions.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven after all these years, I still think that the surgery was the best option for me,\u201d says Shamilla.<\/p>\n<p>For Wendy, the process involved coming to terms with what matters to her. \u201cI\u2019ve learnt that my peace and contentment has nothing to do with having boobs. It\u2019s not what I look like on the outside that counts, but how I deal with life in my head and my heart that brings me happiness \u2013 and that\u2019s the area I work on,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>Reflecting on her experience, Sasha described a similar feeling of peace and gratification after her surgery. \u201cNothing has changed for me from day one, when I was 19, to now being 24,\u201d she says. \u201cI\u2019m so grateful I went ahead with surgery and feel such peace of mind with myself knowing I made the right decision for me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If Sasha was to give one piece of advice to people who are going through something similar, it would be to not feel rushed into anything. \u201cPlease don\u2019t be afraid to ever reach out for any help or guidance, it\u2019s always offered to those that need it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em><span data-contrast=\"none\">Thanks to Shamilla, Wendy and Sasha for sharing their experiences with our Media Volunteer Liaison team.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"panel-title\">More on this topic<\/h3>\n<\/p>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/cancerresearchuk\/SHhE\/~3\/QgzNtr0m3wE\/\">Source<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wendy had a double mastectomy in 2017 and remained flat. \u201cWhen the consultant told me, I remember crying and saying that I have 2 young children, I am a single parent. Who\u2019s going to take care of them? 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